Thursday, November 01, 2012

Backpacking S'pore, M'sia, Thailand




SE Asia is a destination that's high on my list for three reasons. One, it’s easy to get to from India. Two, it requires a lot of on road travel, which is possible only while I'm still young! Last and the most important - its a great destination for a foodie like me. Now that I'm into business,I knew I can't cover SE Asia at one stretch. So I decided to split it.

Day 0: Dinesh and I decided to go on a trip to Singapore, Malaysia and Thailand only a week ago. So we got our passports with visas stamped only on the day of our departure. We also got hold of a few singapore dollars and ringgits. Hindsight: I should have just taken USD and converted it to the local currencies. My backpack (+ stuff I was wearing) consisted of the following: 2 jeans, 1 shorts, 1 swim shorts, 3 t-shirts, 1 shirt, 2 briefs, 1 towel, 1 cap, 1 pair shoes, 1 pair slippers, 2 socks, 1 point-and-shoot cam, 1 smart phone, blinders n ear plugs, chargers and toiletries. Hindsight: 1 less jeans, avoid a shirt unless needed, 1-2 more t-shirts.

Day 1 (6/10/12 - Saturday): Landed in S’pore Changi airport around 7AM. Went to the tourism desk, got a map of S'pore and few travel tips from the chick at the desk. Took a train to Chinatown and had our breakfast there. It was so-so. But I was pissed they charged 50 cents each for the wet napkins! After walking around a bit, we headed to the hostel - River City Inn. The hostel was very close to the Clark Quay MRT station. We were asked to wait until 2PM to check-in. So rather than waste time, we went to Little India. Felt like stepping into a busy street in Chennai. We walked around the entire area and finally arrived at Mustafa Shopping Center. This place was so huge. I believe they carry practically everything and anything that can be sold at a shop. Grabbed lunch ($6 PP) at a random place. The food was OK. Went back to the hostel, checked-in, took a nap, called DD and decided to meet her at the Merlion. The Merlion was only about 20 minutes of riverside walk from the hostel. Ever since I saw my chitapa’s pics near the Merlion over 15 years ago, I’ve wanted to visit it. Here I was, standing near it. DD joined shortly after we were done clicking pictures of the Merlion and Marina Bay Sands building. We walked all the way to Lau Pa Sat (the largest and most popular hawkers centre, very close to the business district Raffles Quay) for dinner. Tried a variety of local favorites. Then went to the mall by the Harbour Front MRT station. Ate coconut puttus at a chinese stall. Went back to the hostel and rested for a while. Then around mid-night, decided to check out the bars in around the hostel. There were a variety of bars - so our bar hopping proved very entertaining.

Day 2: Woke up late. Went to Jurong bird park. We had a great time checking out a variety of birds and also interacting with them!! I believe this is the world’s largest bird park. Loved feeding the birds and penguins. Highly recommended. Went to Arab street and smoked hookah. Dinner at ‘Lau Pa Sat’ hawker center. Hit the bars again at night. ‘Gangnam Style’ played at almost all bars we stepped in - everyone there loved it, and so did I!

Day 3: Did some planning for the Malaysia trip. Booked ‘Firefly Airline’ flight tickets from Johor Bahru to Kota Bahru (RM 215). Breakfast at ‘Market Street Food Center’ hawker center. Went to Gardens by the Bay. The ‘Flower Dome’ was disappointing because there wasn’t much flowers, except the ones I usually see in India. The ‘Cloud Forest’ was interesting, unique layout. In the evening, went to the top of Marina Bay Sands Building. The view of Singapore skyline was decent. (not as impressive as NYC or Chicago!). Went back to Little India for our last and final dinner in S’pore. This was the first time we ate at a proper sit-in restaurant (Banana Leaf). The food was very good. Wished we could spend another day in S'pore. But we had to move on.

Day 4: Woke up around 5:30AM and took the first MRT train to Kranji station. From there, took a bus to cross the border and then a taxi to get to the Johor Bahru airport. After reaching Kota Bahru, took a taxi to the jetty at Kuala Besut and then a express boat to Perhentian Islands. Checked-in at New Cocohut Chalet resort (RM 130 per night per room). Relaxed by the beach for the rest of the evening.

Day 5: Hired a local boat driver named Wan and went on a snorkelling trip. First spot was a small island. Saw some beautiful fishes and jelly fishes. Then went to spot on the island we were staying. I believe it was in front of the Perhentian resort. Snorkeled along with sea turtles. The best was when the turtle came upto the surface right in front on me. I was only about 10cms away from the turtle. Great feeling. Snorkeled at a few more spots before heading back to the resort. The cost of the trip was RM 80 PP. Walked around the island in the evening and hung around the beach until dawn. Ate grilled snapper for dinner at the resort. We had all our meals at the resort while we were on the island.
Day 6: In the morning, booked tickets for mini-van to Penang at ‘Ayumi House’ - a convenience store/travel agency run by a helpful woman. Then we joined Wan for another snorkelling trip. In the first spot, we saw a few colorful corals. Then we went to the turtle spot again. Then we went to the next spot where we snorkeled along with hundreds of colorful fishes. Wan had brought bread along with him to feed the fishes. He threw bread crumbs all around us and we could feel the fishes biting us. Finally, we went to a spot where we saw a couple of big sharks. It was very thrilling. We were tired by the end of the trip. So we rested for a while by the beach. Suddenly I noticed a tattoo on a lady who passed by. The tattoo was an outline of the world map. I felt an instant connection to the tattoo. For long I’ve wanted to get a tattoo, but wanted a design that I could relate to, a tattoo that says something about me. The moment I saw it, I knew that this was going to be my first one. A tattoo of the world. So I walked upto the lady and took a few pictures of the tattoo. Now the next big decision is to finalize on a good spot on my dark skinned hairy body for the beautiful tattoo. Later in the afternoon, we went fishing. This was my first fishing experience. I was a total failure. No big catches for the day. Caught only a few small ones. I thought to myself that rather than using a fishing rod, if I had used a towel or lungi, I would have caught more fishes!

Day 7: Took a boat to Kuala Besut and caught the minivan to take us to Penang. Since this was end of season, we were the only 2 passengers on board! Penang is very very popular for great food. Reached Georgetown, Penang after a 6 hour road trip. Checked in at the Red Inn hostel. The hostel was very close to Little India. Since we were hungry, we headed out to the most popular hawker centre in the island - Gurney Drive Hawker Centre. Only about half the stalls were open. But we still helped ourselves to some delicious asian food. Then checked-out a few bars in the area, had a beer and then went to bed.

Day 8: Since we were in the land of great food, we decided to forego the free breakfast and eat at some local stalls. As we walked along Little India, we noticed a couple of crowded food stalls. We ordered egg parota and appam. We were really surprised by the taste of the parota. So we ordered another one. But the one we found most delicious was the tuna samosa sold at a nearby stall. We liked it so much that we packed a couple to snack on later. Then we caught bus 101 to the butterfly farm. Since we arrived around lunch, we had to wait almost 45 minutes for a tour of the farm. But the 30-45 minute tour was really worth it. We witnessed all stages of development of a butterfly. One of the cool stuff I saw was the insect that looked like the branch of a plant - great example of how a species adapts to survive. As we waited for a bus back to town, we met a Malaysian Tamil cab driver. He was really proud of being a tamil. He told us in detail about his playboy lifestyle! He also recommended we eat at a food stall that served great thala kari, kodal and paya in Little India. On our way back, we stopped at the Gurney Drive Hawker center for a late lunch. Dinesh tried his first uncooked-salmon sushi and he was later in tears when I tricked him into eating a lot of wasabi! Since we didn’t have much else planned for the evening, we decided to watch a tamil movie. But unfortunately, the show timings didn’t work out. As we walked around Georgetown, we were lucky to watch a parade for some chinese festival. Then it started raining. So we went back to the hostel and booked a hostel for our stay in KL. We also did some research on things to do in KL. After the rain died down, we went to the stall recommended by the cab driver. We ate parota and appam with kothu kari, paya and kodal curry. The food was simply delicious. Then we caught a bus to KL.

Day 9: We were dropped off at the KL bus station around 4AM. After a lot of walking around, we finally managed to find our hostel - BackHome Kuala Lumpur. Since we were really tired, we immediately went to bed. After having breakfast at the hostel, we took a bus to Batu Caves. The murugan statue was just incredible. The view from the top of the caves was also great. I believe this is the best ever setting for a temple. The caves were beautiful in the inside. After spending some time trying to soak in the beauty around me, we signed up for a tour of a section of the batu caves. I learnt a lot about bat and the dependence of various organisms on bat excretion. Caught the train back to KL and went to the National Mosque. This was the first time I was entering a mosque. Felt really cool! Interesting note is that if women or men aren’t dressed appropriately, then they need to wear a cloak that reminded me of the movie ‘The Village’! Anyways, the architecture was different from the ones in India. Apparently, the tomb is designed in the shape of an umbrella - which signifies protection. Then we took the train to see the famous and iconic Petronas Towers. Spent some time clicking pictures and watching the fountain show outside the towers. Then went to a pub, had a drink, walked all the way to the hostel and off to bed.

Day 10: Had breakfast at a popular neighborhood chinese restaurant. Checked-out Chinatown. Went to Berjaya Times Square shopping mall so Dinesh can do souvenir shopping. The shops there carried a lot of nice and colorful clothes. Great place to shop when upgrading the wardrobe. Took a break from shopping to watch the movie ‘Taken 2’. The movie was alright. Went to a busy hawker center and had a good dinner.

Day 11: Got up early and took an express train to the KL airport. While Dinesh caught a flight to India, I continued on with my trip to Thailand. Landed in Swarnabhumi airport and got my visa stamped on arrival. Based on my research, I found this company (http://www.belltravelservice.com/) that offers Airport to Pattaya transfer for only THB 200. But since the next bus wasn’t for at least another hour, I looked at the option of taking a cab. But the charge for cab was THB 1500! Then I ran into this man who was also looking to go to Pattaya. So I asked him if he was willing to share a cab. It turned out that the man (Lahos) from Switzerland had been travelling to Pattaya for the past 20 years! So he found a cab for only THB 1000. So my share was only THB 500, not a bad deal. Throughout the ride, I got to know more about Lahos. He is part of a club called Hash House Harriers, which conducts running+drinking events! There is also a local chapter in Chennai (http://www.madrashash.com/). I need to check it out sometime. Anyway, before we parted, we decided to meet for drinks that night. After I got back to my hotel (Nova Platinum, USD 65 for executive suite), I went out and got a really relaxing massage for myself. Then met Lahos around 9:30PM. He gave me a wonderful tour of Pattaya nightlife.

Day 12: Woke up late in the day, grabbed breakfast at the hotel and headed out. Spent some time in town. And then went to Tiffany’s show. The show was really well made. Liked that they had a bollywood section. After the show, I blacked out and woke up only on Day 15! WHIPSIP!

Day 15: Checked-out of Tim Boutique hotel (awesome hotel with an in-room jacuzzi) and caught the 9AM Bell bus to Bangkok (THB 350). My only regret while leaving Pattaya was that I still hadn’t eaten any insects. After I reached the ourskirts of BKK, I was transferred to a minivan that would take me to the hostel. The van was so slow because of the traffic. On the way, I noticed on my cellphone that I was close to a train station. So I asked the driver to drop me off at that station. Since this was my first time using the train system in BKK, it took some time getting used to. But I finally managed to catch the right trains and reach the hostel ‘Smile Society’. The hostel was conveniently located near a train (Sala Daeng) and bus station. I learnt from the person at the front desk that the Grand Palace closes daily at 3:30PM. So after taking a quick shower, I headed out to the Grand Place. Got down at the “Saphan Tak Sin” station and took an express boat. The entry was about THB 400, which I felt was expensive. I was really blown away by the structures inside the palace compound. It was breathtaking. I especially enjoyed sitting inside the emerald Buddha temple. After spending about 2 hrs at the palace, I walked down the street to Wat Po. Again the structures inside were beautiful. I began to really like Thai architecture. Wat Po has a huge sleeping Buddha. Then I crossed the river to get to Wat Arun. Everyone is allowed to climb the pagoda at Wat Arun. The only challenge is that the steps are very steep, not for the faint hearted. The views from the top were nice. Got back to the hostel and rested a bit. Then went out around 9PM to the nearby Lumpinee Muay Thai Boxing Stadium. While the ticket price for Thais is only THB 100 for tickets, non-Thais need to shell out THB1500-2000!!! I saw about 8 matches that night. Some were really intense. All along, locals were betting on the matches, which proved to be an interesting sideshow. The last match of the night was the main event, which sadly didn’t end in a knockout!

Day 16: I actually wanted to visit the floating market. But online reviews mentioned that the floating market had become very touristy and wasn't worth traveling 2hrs each way. On the other hand, I was also desperate to eat grasshoppers, scorpions and other insects before the end of this trip. So I headed to Market in the hopes of finding crispy grasshoppers. The market was full of trendy and cheap clothing. Great place to shop for souvenirs and fashionable clothes. But my search for insect delicacies proved futile. Nevertheless, I stuffed myself with chocolate banana, roasted chicken balls, quail eggs, fried fish, fired prawns, orange juice, tender coconut juice, watermelon juice and minute maid milkshake (which i got for free!). Then I got a caricature of myself done by a person at an art stall (fb.com/artstreetgroup). Since I had a lot of time left before my flight and coupled with the fact that I was soooo tired, I decided to watch a movie. So went to a shopping mall with a  cineplex. The theatre had a 4D show of Taken 2, which I had seen in Malaysia. There was another show that charged THB 1000. Apparently, the price includes a 15-minute massage, popcorn and soda! But since I wanted to watch Looper for a long time, I went for that movie (TMB 230). I'm usually not a big fan of sci-fi films, but this one was just great. I totally enjoyed the movie. The movie ended at about 6:50PM and my flight departure time was 9:10PM!! So I rushed up to my hostel, picked the backpack and hurried to the airport.  I've never arrived so late (less than an hour before take off) for an international flight! The thrilling ride to the airport was a fitting way to mark the end of a fabulous trip.



Wednesday, April 18, 2012

My first DIY

I crashed my car's rear tail light into an iron beam while in Canada. I thought it was going to be a $300-$400 fix, including parts and labor. But the aftermarket price of the replacement tail light was only $75 on Amazon. So I ordered it.

I finally received the "Hyundai Sonata 2011 Driver Side Tail Light" from Amazon this evening. I was expecting a "how-to" guide along with the pack. Unfortunately there wasn't any and I had no intentions of going to a garage and paying $50-$100 for labor. So probably for the first time ever, I decided to do something related to "fixing an automobile" by myself. I took all the spanners and screw drivers I had and got started. I was very excited and nervous. By trail and error, I was able to successfully replace the tail light. Checked the brake lights and they worked perfectly. Marvelous!!

I'm proud and satisfied! ;)

Friday, April 13, 2012

Heart Vs Mind

Just a couple of days ago, I let my manager know that May 11th will be my last day at work. And yesterday, I booked a one-way ticket to India for May 15th. It sort of felt surreal as I clicked the submit button to confirm the ticket purchase. It was followed by an immediate sense of relief. That relief lasted only a few seconds though as I went back to this (what seems like) never ending state of tussle between mind and heart.

I have always wanted to run my own business. Deep down I feel that I would be more successful and happy if I managed my own business. And off-late, my curiosity to learn new things has led me to this state of mind where I want to endlessly travel and explore the world. This desire to travel has only become stronger after my Mexico/Costa Rica trip last year and Canada trip last week. I’m currently taking Spanish lessons so I can travel through the length and breadth of South America. I want to explore Europe, Asia, Africa, Oceania and even the ocean beneath. And on top of all this, I want to explore India.

During my travels, I got this idea of starting a network of backpacking hostels in India. The great thing about this idea is that it combines my desires for business and travel. But there’s a slight challenge – I have to give up my highly successful and very well paying corporate career. My mind (the sensible side) wants me to continue with the corporate career at least for another few years. My heart (the crazy side) wants me to immediately start the hostel. Here are the arguments in favor of each side:

Corporate Career:
- Very successful career. If I continue in this path, I can definitely make it big.
- Relatively stable but limiting
- Great pay
- Parents will be happy
- Less risky

Business Career:
- Satisfaction of running own business, dream come true
- Travel more and explore the world, again personally very satisfying
- Highly risky, but potential for more success
- Uncertain future
- I will certainly be happy no matter the outcome. My parents might not be happy in the short term, but will turnaround in the medium to long term.

I can choose between these two paths. Or for the time being manage both paths simultaneously and delay the decision for another day. But then why wait until tomorrow to do something good if I can do it today?

Will I stick with the corporate career or follow my dreams and start a hostel? Oh well, time will tell.

Friday, April 06, 2012

Trip to the country of maple leaves and ice hockey!

I’ve long wanted to visit Canada, especially the French province of Quebec. I find European style buildings and a walled city very fascinating. So I finally decided to take the plunge and visit Canada before I head back to India for good. Here are the day-to-day details of the trip.

Day 0 (March 30th 2012): Left office early so I could stop by Anjappar for lunch. Chicken rasam and plain rasam were awesome. Got back on the road with a full stomach and headed to NYC for some personal stuff. Then drove up to Glens Falls, NY and rested for the night.

Day 1: First stop was at Ausable Chasm on the US side. It was a nice water falls. Then entered Canada. Suddenly I went through the same feeling that I experienced when I landed in Mexico. Pretty much every sign was in French. But that only added to my excitement. And I was happy that I could finally put my 2 years of studying French to use. ( I barely know 10 words in French!!!) Reached Montreal, checked in at “La Maison du Patriote” hostel. Since I hadn’t had breakfast that morning, decided to grab brunch at “Schwartz’s”. This smoked meat joint was recommended by a Montreal guy who I met in New Orleans. He claimed that the restaurant served the best smoked meat in the world and was very popular among tourists and locals alike. The queue to get into “Schwartz’s” was very long. Grabbed a smoked meat sandwich. I must say that this was the best smoked meat I’ve ever had. It was very soft and tasty, definitely worth the hype. Then drove around the town not knowing where I was headed next. One of the striking features of the Montreal skyline is the Olympic stadium. So decided to head towards it. Checked out the bio-dome and Olympic stadium. There was not much at the bio-dome that I hadn’t seen before. Then grabbed bagel at “St. Vaiteur bagel and CafĂ©”, which is one of the other popular places to eat in Montreal. The bagel was soft and I liked it. Then visited the Montreal church on Mount Royal. It was very unique and modern. Then hung around Old Montreal for the rest of the night.

Day 2: Took pictures of Old Montreal. Bought a little piece of art from a street-side vendor as a souvenir. Taught the vendor a couple of words in Tamil in exchange for a $5 discount. Breakfast at “Creperie”, a neat French restaurant that specialized in Crepes. Visited the “Bio-Sphere”. It was all about conservation, staying green and global warning. All the exhibits and presentations were very nicely put together, and the dome was also very beautiful. Spent a lot of time attending various presentations. Felt very disturbed about how we humans have managed to ruin the planet we call home. Then went to Notre Dame cathedral, which was more traditional looking compared to the one on Mt. Royal. Stopped by “Schwartz’s” one last time for lunch. Drove to Quebec City and checked-in at “La Belle Planete Backpackers” hostel. Walked along the decorated streets around the hostel and ate at "Subway"!

Day 3: Parked the car at the Information Center just outside walled city and decided to visit the fortified city by foot. Visited Quebec’s parliament and took a guided tour. Since this was the off-season, I had the privilege of being the only one on the tour! The building was very beautiful but what struck me more was that the parliament was scarcely guarded. This was in contrast to the government buildings in US, which are heavily guarded because of the paranoia that prevails in the US. That, I believe, is the cost of being the most powerful and irresponsible country on the planet. Then I entered the walled section of Quebec City for the first time. It felt great! This is every “Age of Empire” fanatic’s (like I was in college) dream come true. All the houses and shops were very pretty. Checked out “Chateau Frontenac” and clicked pictures. This is apparently the most photographed hotel in North America, and I sure did contribute to the claim. Grabbed brunch at “Buffet de L’Antiquaire” – a place recommended at the Info center. Ordered the house special pie, which was a 3 course meal (salad, meat pie and dessert). Very delicious. Then went to the local Quebec market. Most shops sold products made from maple tree such as syrup, candies and wine. Decided to go back to the place for breakfast the next morning. Then took a guided tour of the citadel, nothing special but has good views of the surrounding area. Walked around Champlain Street and Place Royale, which had boutique shops. Then walked all the way up to the observatory building only to find it was closed for the day. By now I was really tired from walking all day. Drove the car to Montmorency falls. Then dinner at “La Cuisine”. The restaurant was really unique in that it was setup like an actual kitchen and living room. The orders were cooked right in front of you in the kitchen. Very cool place and homely food. Checked in at “Auberge Internationale de Quebec” hostel, which is within the walled city.


Day 4: Went back to Quebec local market for breakfast. Ate smoked salmon, chicken roll & lamb roll, dessert (made of egg white, honey, almonds and dry fruits) and chocolate cake. Then bought tomato wine (yes, tomato wine) and collection set of wines made from strawberry, blueberry and other fruits. Also bought maple syrup as souvenirs for colleagues. Then went to the observatory. The view of Quebec city from the top was just stunning. It was a great way to end a memorable trip to the walled city. I will always cherish visiting this beautiful city. Drove to Ottawa and checked in at “HI-Ottawa Jail” hostel. This is a jail that has been converted into a hostel. How cool is that! Did a guided tour of the jail. Apparently a lot of prisoners were tortured here and 3 were “officially” hanged at the jail. The jail is supposed to be haunted. Had a good night’s sleep nevertheless.

Day 5: Got ready early in the morning knowing that I had a busy day ahead of me. Stopped by the jail kitchen for the free breakfast. Met Lisa, a Brit who was on a 6 month vacation! We decided to hang out together for the day. Stopped by Information center. The guy at the center recommended a hiking trail at the Gatineau park. So the two of us drove to the park and hiked the hill. The view was beautiful. Had interesting conversations about traveling, evil corporations and photography. Lunch at a Vietnamese restaurant in the Byward market area and then ate dessert at bakery within the market. Then headed to check out the Canadaian parliament. All the guided tours were full for the day. So visited the senate floor while it was in session. It was a really cool experience. Then did a guided tour of Canada’s Supreme Court. After that went to the currency museum. Bought a few currencies and coins for my personal collection. Dropped off Lisa at the bus station and then checked in at “Ottawa Backpackers Inn” hostel. Went to Byward market to grab dinner. As I was strolling along looking for an interesting restaurant, a guy by the side walk asked for a dollar or two. I just said “sorry” and as I walked past him I heard him say “have a nice day”. I liked that he wished me a nice day even though I didn’t help him. So I went back to him and handed him a dollar. Then I asked him for a restaurant suggestion. He introduced himself as Louie and and offered to walk me to a diner that served “poutine” (French fries with cheese and gravy) – a very Canadian dish. He asked me if I could buy him something to eat. So I decided to share the “poutine” with him. Over dinner, we discussed about his past and present. Very interesting dinner.


Day 6: Breakfast at Byward market (smoked salmon sandwich, and Florentine for dessert). Took a guided of the Canadian Royal Mint. Very informative. Stopped by at Notre dame cathedral on my way to the parliament. Wanted to attend the House of Commons question hour, but the question hour was moved to earlier in the day. I felt very disappointed because I was looking forward to seeing the Prime Minister of Canada during the question hour. Then drove over 5 hours to the south-west of Ottawa to reach a city that is right on the India-China border. The most surprising aspect of the city was that over 20% of the people were Caucasians. This must be the Asian country with the highest % of Caucasians!!! LOL!!! Anyways, checked in at “Clarence Castle” hostel. Walked around a few blocks to get a feel of the city. Ate chicken kabab for dinner at a wonderful Lebanese restaurant in the neighborhood.

Day 7: Woke up late and headed out to the iconic CN Towers, which was only 2 blocks from the hostel. Even though the place was over crowded and I had to wait in long lines for everything, the trip to the top was well worth it. The clear sky facilitated a great view of the Toronto area, which is an endless array of concrete structures. Then purchased the day pass for the public transit system and went around Toronto downtown. Ate brunch at another Lebanese restaurant. Again, the food was great. Used the cable car to visit Yonge shopping area, China town, St Lawrence market (closed due to Easter) and entertainment district. Didn’t find Toronto interesting. It was like any other North American city, only a little more diverse. Went to the hostel to rest for a while and then went to Kensington Market for dinner. Ate pecan pie for dinner.

Day 8: Woke up late and had brunch at Chez Cora, a small chain that serves healthy breakfast and lunch. Then drove down to Niagara fall and checked-in at “Niagara Falls Backpackers” hostel. After that, drove/walked around the falls area and also visited the Niagara whirlpool spot. In the evening, went to Casino Niagara to gamble with left over Canadian dollars.

Day 9: Drove to Rochester and met with Gary for breakfast at “South Wedge Diner”. Then had lunch with John at “The Owl House”. After that, hit the road for a 6 hour drive to Wilmington.

Overall, the trip went wonderfully well. Visited a lot of interesting places, but Quebec is my pick of the trip.

Monday, March 26, 2012

Cheating your way to success!

Last night (March 25, 2012) was one of those Catan board game nights, which off late has turned into a weekly ritual. During the final minutes of the second game, I faced a moral dilemma on whether or not to end my 2-game losing streak (which was preceded by a 5 game winning streak) by cheating on my opponents. I almost went through with the plan and claimed victory, but then retreated for 2 reasons.

First - the obvious - guilt. The sheer guilt from an act of cheating will far out-weigh the happiness borne out of victory. Apart from avoiding guilt, there is also the added perk of happiness obtained from standing by the side of "truth". I still pat myself on the back for honestly returning Rs. 1,25,000 ($2,500) in excess pay as an intern at Cigna.

Second - and equally important - is the fear of cheating becoming a habit. Once you get into the habit of cheating as a means of achieving even small things (such as a victory in a board game), then you will progressively start cheating in every aspect of life until it spirals out of control. You will not strive hard to achieve any thing in life and instead take the shortcut to success. I firmly believe that success will last in the long run "only" if achieved through hard work and honest means.

That night, as I went to bed, I thought about how I can improve my strategy to win the next Catan game, and once again patted myself on the back for staying honest. Sweet dreams.

What would I miss once I leave US for good?

This thought crossed my mind a few days ago. So here's the list

- NPR (Where on earth can I get my dose of sensible news while on the road)
- Wegmans breakfast cereals (my breakfast I never going to be the same again)
- American Football (especially because I might never see a game live, which is an unique American experience)
- BBQ food (especially pulled pork, yummy!!!)
- Fall colors
- Sales tax free DE (it always feels great when I pay the exact amount I see on the price tag)
- My friends (of course, the most important one on the list. I consider myself lucky to have befriended some people who have made a positive impact on me)

My gripe about Gifting!

While I like to give, I'm not a big fan of the Indian way of gift giving! Most often the giver has no idea about the needs and tastes of the receiver. So the giver ends up gifting dinner sets, decorative items and other unnecessary items that usually end up in the storage room and is re-gifted!! Some thoughtful people gift silver or gold items. But I would argue that even these rarely meet the tastes of the receiver and end up in bank lockers (to preserve the sentimental value) or remade into another piece of jewelry (which is a waste of resources).

Let’s evaluate a couple of alternatives here – gift cards and gift registry. As per the NYTimes article, $41B in gift cards were not redeemed. $41,000,000,000 is an awful lot of money to go unused. It is estimated that almost 10% of gift cards go unused. And then there’s the problem of unnecessary fees charged by gift card companies. The challenges with gift registries are 1) forcing givers to spend more than they might be willing to 2) limited gift options 3) the receiver might not be able to correctly judge future while setting up the registry.

Even with these shortcomings, I still think a combination of gift cards and gift registry can to a great extent match the needs of both giver and receiver. But I believe a better way to address these concerns is to just give cash. As we all know, cash is king! This is actually a common practice in most Tamil weddings (can’t speak intelligently about weddings in other parts of India). It’s called “Moi eluthurathu”. But then I’m not a big fan of cash-gifting in its current form, where the receiver can track the amount gifted by a particular person. It feels (at least to me) like assigning money value to relationships. Is a Rs. 500 gifted by a not-so-financially-well-off well-wisher less valuable than a Rs. 5000 gifted by a super rich acquaintance. Most people would like to believe that they have the mental capability to value a relation based on intangibles (love, friendship etc) as opposed to tangibles (rupee-value of a gift, in this context). But it is very difficult for the subconscious mind to do so, especially in an increasingly materialistic world.

So my suggestion is to give and receive cash-gifts anonymously. That way the giver will not be socially obligated to gift beyond their means and the receiver will not go through tangible vs. intangible conflict. And the receiver has the option to pool all the money to buy product of their liking, or even invest in a savings fund.

As an extension of this argument, I believe a similar concept can be followed with campaign financing as well. One of the biggest problems with Indian political system is campaign financing. Since most candidates are forced to spend significant amount of their personal money in running political campaigns, their goals invariably become getting a good return on investment once elected. Anonymous contributions eliminate the need to not only “earn” money but also favor “large” contributors. As a caveat, all these apply only to ethical politicians (sounds like an oxymoron these days!!)

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Why back to India?

Well.. as mentioned in the previous post.. I always wanted to go back... my aspiration when I left India in 2007 was to get an MBA, work in US for few years, then work in few other countries for few years each before I finally returned... but things have changed.. especially in the past year....

I just want to go back to live with my family and friends... I find no reason as to why I should sacrifice all their love and care to live in the US... when I went to India past December, I had a nice time with my family... missed all the good old days... but most importantly I felt that my family needed me.. my grandma is very sick and old... my parents keep falling ill and even my uncles and aunts keep falling ill... I feel like I have to be there for them... to help them when they grow old... also I feel helpless when it comes to guiding my brothers, sisters and cousins...felt bad that I couldn't attend my cousins' weddings... that trip definitely convinced me to make the move...

I miss my parents, relatives, friends, Coimbatore, Chennai, India... I miss my mom's food... and everything that I experienced growing up in India... I have a feeling that if I stayed in the US any longer, I would regret it for the rest of my life... I also feel that moving to India might solve my marital problems... maybe having a support structure might keep us occupied and life better lives...

apart from personal factors.. I also feel very constrained living in the US.. its very difficult to start a business, which is what I always wanted to do in the long run... going back to India will give me the flexibility to manage a business while still working... my current plan is to start backpacking hostels in India.. first targets are Kochi and Madurai...

there is also this huge list of things I wanna do after going to India... practice yoga.. learn unicycling... continue learning spanish... start a Keep Kovai Klean or Keep Chennai Clean NGO.... get into public service - potentially through politics.... watch a Sachin game live... watch Ilayaraja concert live... eat at Anjappar... travel all around India... travel all around the world...

my mind is already in India.. May can't come sooner....

5 years and 13 days!!!!

That's how long it's been since I last posted on this blog!!!! I'm not sure where to begin... March 9th 2007 (referred to as THEN henceforth)? March 22 2012 (referred to as NOW henceforth)?

When I last posted, I was in Chennai... all set to quit my job and head to the US... the land of opportunities..... the dream destination for most young Indians of my generation... even then I knew that I would always return to India... now forward to the present... March 22, 2012.... I've made up my mind to return to India.. my home... my homeland... my land of opportunities...

In this 5 years, so much has changed... well, everything has changed...
THEN... I had a B.E. in IT ... NOW... I also have an MBA in Finance
THEN... I worked for as a s/w engineer who disliked his work and felt useless in terms of making an impact on the company.... NOW... I work as a senior financial analyst who saved the company over $16,000,000....
THEN... the farthest I had traveled was Mumbai... NOW... I've traveled extensive in the US, and visited England, Canada, Mexico, Costa Rica & Nicaragua....
THEN... I was an irresponsible, carefree, single guy.. NOW I'm married!!!!

professionally.. I've achieved way more than I ever dreamed of... personally... hmmm....what can I say!!??

anyways.. the reason I've (re)started blogging is to keep a record of events that happen in my life and also capture my thoughts.... Happy Blogging!! :)